But I remembered these two things:
1. A quote from this excellent essay by Internet hacktivist Aaron Swartz.
In moments of great emotional stress, we revert to our worst habits: we dig in and fight harder. The real trick is not to get better at fighting — it’s to get better at stopping ourselves: at taking a deep breath, calming down, and letting our better natures take over from our worst instincts.2. This expression that I see often in discussions on mindfulness, meditation, and yoga:
Sit with the discomfort.Or, in this context, sit with the uncomfortable feeling. So I did.
I still ended up doing the work, but at least I was no longer doing it upset.